"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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There's this girl I have this crush on.when ever I try to talk to her she seems like distance or look like she's faking her smile.then she will like always stare at me all the time like lock on eye contact.Like I think she likes me but I don't know what to do.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Apple477 said:
There's this girl I have this crush on.when ever I try to talk to her she seems like distance or look like she's faking her smile.then she will like always stare at me all the time like lock on eye contact.Like I think she likes me but I don't know what to do.
Can someone help please
 

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Apple477 said:
There's this girl I have this crush on.when ever I try to talk to her she seems like distance or look like she's faking her smile.then she will like always stare at me all the time like lock on eye contact.Like I think she likes me but I don't know what to do.
I would walk up to her and tell her that I find her attractive and to put her number in my phone so we can get to know each other.

If she doesn't do it then move on.
 

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do that^^

If you like her, why not go for it, right? Its better to fail than to not know what would have happened and in the end you gain experience.

Also, remember that there are many more girls in the world who are as beatifull as her and more. So rememeber that you do not need her. You want her but dont need her.
 
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