There's this girl I have this crush on.when ever I try to talk to her she seems like distance or look like she's faking her smile.then she will like always stare at me all the time like lock on eye contact.Like I think she likes me but I don't know what to do.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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- Thread starter Apple477
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Master Don Juan
I would walk up to her and tell her that I find her attractive and to put her number in my phone so we can get to know each other.Apple477 said:
If she doesn't do it then move on.
do that^^
If you like her, why not go for it, right? Its better to fail than to not know what would have happened and in the end you gain experience.
Also, remember that there are many more girls in the world who are as beatifull as her and more. So rememeber that you do not need her. You want her but dont need her.
If you like her, why not go for it, right? Its better to fail than to not know what would have happened and in the end you gain experience.
Also, remember that there are many more girls in the world who are as beatifull as her and more. So rememeber that you do not need her. You want her but dont need her.