"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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There's this one girl that I know and we've had a lil something going on for a while now.

What I don't understand is why is it that when one of us doesn't go to the other person's place for a while (at least a few weeks) or we don't talk at all (including phone, text, IM, Facebook, etc), she asks "Where you been?" or "Why you been hiding?" or "What all have you been doing?" the following time that she sees me?

I tell her what I've been doing (school, work, or chillin), but it's like she don't understand. She'll repeatedly ask me the same question until I say something that she don't expect me to say or she see that I'ma keep giving her the same answer.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tharam04 said:
There's this one girl that I know and we've had a lil something going on for a while now.

What I don't understand is why is it that when one of us doesn't go to the other person's place for a while (at least a few weeks) or we don't talk at all (including phone, text, IM, Facebook, etc), she asks "Where you been?" or "Why you been hiding?" or "What all have you been doing?" the following time that she sees me?
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That's called being social. If you haven't seen a friend in a while, what did you say to him first time you see him again? "Hey, how's it going?" You kinda want to know what he's been up to.
 
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