"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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tharam04

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There's this one girl that I know and we've had a lil something going on for a while now.

What I don't understand is why is it that when one of us doesn't go to the other person's place for a while (at least a few weeks) or we don't talk at all (including phone, text, IM, Facebook, etc), she asks "Where you been?" or "Why you been hiding?" or "What all have you been doing?" the following time that she sees me?

I tell her what I've been doing (school, work, or chillin), but it's like she don't understand. She'll repeatedly ask me the same question until I say something that she don't expect me to say or she see that I'ma keep giving her the same answer.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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tharam04 said:
There's this one girl that I know and we've had a lil something going on for a while now.

What I don't understand is why is it that when one of us doesn't go to the other person's place for a while (at least a few weeks) or we don't talk at all (including phone, text, IM, Facebook, etc), she asks "Where you been?" or "Why you been hiding?" or "What all have you been doing?" the following time that she sees me?
That's called being social. If you haven't seen a friend in a while, what did you say to him first time you see him again? "Hey, how's it going?" You kinda want to know what he's been up to.
 
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