"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Confused why she isnt picking up

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Hi Guys,

I'm kinda new to all this PUA stuff...but I think I am starting to get the hang of it. But something happened this week and I'm kinda confused, so I need your advice!

About a month ago I took this girl out for a drink etc and we ended up in bed together that night. Nice girl, good personality and I'd say HB6. Anyway since that night we have met another 3 or 4 times and every time we have had sex...sometimes at my place and sometimes at hers.

So this week I was supposed to meet her on Tuesday night. So last sunday we agreed and i said to her that i would call her again on tuesday to confirm it. So i call in her on tuesday and she was like "my friend is moving in with me today so i cant, but im free tomorrow" I was like ok cool talk to u tomorrow. (I dont think she was bull****ting me about her friend moving in because she told me a while ago about this, but didnt know the exact day of the move).

So anyway on wednesday she texts me saying "Oh i went to the dentist i have really bad tooth ache, i dont think i can make it tonight sorry etc etc call me" no normally i wouldnt call but i know she is a bit stingy on her mobile credits and since i have a compnay fone i didnt give a ****. So i call her and we talked and to e honest with u guys she did sound in pain. she was like "Oh i feel bad i want to see u etc etc, i definitely want to see u soon". So I said "ok cool well rest urself and take medicine etc and ill speak to u tomorrow". I did offer to go round to hers to look after her but she said na its ok so i said cool.

So...its thursday now and no word from her. I call her around lunchtime...no reply. so i text her and ask hows she is feeling. no reply. Now normally with any chick i would say well f*ck her then and leave it, but i know this girl likes me and likes being with me when we r together so i was kinda confused. i called her again around 9pm but no reply. Immediately i knew this was AFC **** i was doing but im confused as to why she suddenly is ignoring me?

u guys got any ideas?

Sid
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Shezz said:
Ask yourself!

Dont you deserve more?
Dont you WANT more?
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Hell yeah! Good point Shezz.

I know Sid. He is my main man and sarging buddy some saturday nights. I have seen him around chicks since getting into the game, and he does well!

Sid,

We have all been there and a lot of the time what chicks say and what they do doesn't make sense.

Go out, pick up, and lay 3 HB8+ chicks. You won't even remember this chick's name afterwards.
 
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Aye. Dont get in contact. Effectively ignore her. If she rings you and wants to meet up reject her first proposal....your busy....That can be your sh!t test to her to mesaure intrest. Then make another date. Until then....Look for other girls and treat her as if you have nexted her.
 
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thanks guys. I see all your points.

Practice makes perfect...

Sarging on...
 
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Sid said:
About a month ago I took this girl out for a drink etc and we ended up in bed together that night. Nice girl, good personality and I'd say HB6. Anyway since that night we have met another 3 or 4 times and every time we have had sex...sometimes at my place and sometimes at hers.

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So...its thursday now and no word from her. I call her around lunchtime...no reply. so i text her and ask hows she is feeling. no reply. Now normally with any chick i would say well f*ck her then and leave it, but i know this girl likes me and likes being with me when we r together so i was kinda confused. i called her again around 9pm but no reply. Immediately i knew this was AFC **** i was doing but im confused as to why she suddenly is ignoring me?

u guys got any ideas?

Sid
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Both of you have had sex already, and for some reason her interest dropped right off the scale. Next.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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