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Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Confused why she isnt picking up

Sid

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Hi Guys,

I'm kinda new to all this PUA stuff...but I think I am starting to get the hang of it. But something happened this week and I'm kinda confused, so I need your advice!

About a month ago I took this girl out for a drink etc and we ended up in bed together that night. Nice girl, good personality and I'd say HB6. Anyway since that night we have met another 3 or 4 times and every time we have had sex...sometimes at my place and sometimes at hers.

So this week I was supposed to meet her on Tuesday night. So last sunday we agreed and i said to her that i would call her again on tuesday to confirm it. So i call in her on tuesday and she was like "my friend is moving in with me today so i cant, but im free tomorrow" I was like ok cool talk to u tomorrow. (I dont think she was bull****ting me about her friend moving in because she told me a while ago about this, but didnt know the exact day of the move).

So anyway on wednesday she texts me saying "Oh i went to the dentist i have really bad tooth ache, i dont think i can make it tonight sorry etc etc call me" no normally i wouldnt call but i know she is a bit stingy on her mobile credits and since i have a compnay fone i didnt give a ****. So i call her and we talked and to e honest with u guys she did sound in pain. she was like "Oh i feel bad i want to see u etc etc, i definitely want to see u soon". So I said "ok cool well rest urself and take medicine etc and ill speak to u tomorrow". I did offer to go round to hers to look after her but she said na its ok so i said cool.

So...its thursday now and no word from her. I call her around lunchtime...no reply. so i text her and ask hows she is feeling. no reply. Now normally with any chick i would say well f*ck her then and leave it, but i know this girl likes me and likes being with me when we r together so i was kinda confused. i called her again around 9pm but no reply. Immediately i knew this was AFC **** i was doing but im confused as to why she suddenly is ignoring me?

u guys got any ideas?

Sid
 

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Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

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Shezz said:
Ask yourself!

Dont you deserve more?
Dont you WANT more?
Hell yeah! Good point Shezz.

I know Sid. He is my main man and sarging buddy some saturday nights. I have seen him around chicks since getting into the game, and he does well!

Sid,

We have all been there and a lot of the time what chicks say and what they do doesn't make sense.

Go out, pick up, and lay 3 HB8+ chicks. You won't even remember this chick's name afterwards.
 

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Aye. Dont get in contact. Effectively ignore her. If she rings you and wants to meet up reject her first proposal....your busy....That can be your sh!t test to her to mesaure intrest. Then make another date. Until then....Look for other girls and treat her as if you have nexted her.
 

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thanks guys. I see all your points.

Practice makes perfect...

Sarging on...
 

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Sid said:
About a month ago I took this girl out for a drink etc and we ended up in bed together that night. Nice girl, good personality and I'd say HB6. Anyway since that night we have met another 3 or 4 times and every time we have had sex...sometimes at my place and sometimes at hers.

.....

So...its thursday now and no word from her. I call her around lunchtime...no reply. so i text her and ask hows she is feeling. no reply. Now normally with any chick i would say well f*ck her then and leave it, but i know this girl likes me and likes being with me when we r together so i was kinda confused. i called her again around 9pm but no reply. Immediately i knew this was AFC **** i was doing but im confused as to why she suddenly is ignoring me?

u guys got any ideas?

Sid
Both of you have had sex already, and for some reason her interest dropped right off the scale. Next.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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