"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi Guys,

I'm kinda new to all this PUA stuff...but I think I am starting to get the hang of it. But something happened this week and I'm kinda confused, so I need your advice!

About a month ago I took this girl out for a drink etc and we ended up in bed together that night. Nice girl, good personality and I'd say HB6. Anyway since that night we have met another 3 or 4 times and every time we have had sex...sometimes at my place and sometimes at hers.

So this week I was supposed to meet her on Tuesday night. So last sunday we agreed and i said to her that i would call her again on tuesday to confirm it. So i call in her on tuesday and she was like "my friend is moving in with me today so i cant, but im free tomorrow" I was like ok cool talk to u tomorrow. (I dont think she was bull****ting me about her friend moving in because she told me a while ago about this, but didnt know the exact day of the move).

So anyway on wednesday she texts me saying "Oh i went to the dentist i have really bad tooth ache, i dont think i can make it tonight sorry etc etc call me" no normally i wouldnt call but i know she is a bit stingy on her mobile credits and since i have a compnay fone i didnt give a ****. So i call her and we talked and to e honest with u guys she did sound in pain. she was like "Oh i feel bad i want to see u etc etc, i definitely want to see u soon". So I said "ok cool well rest urself and take medicine etc and ill speak to u tomorrow". I did offer to go round to hers to look after her but she said na its ok so i said cool.

So...its thursday now and no word from her. I call her around lunchtime...no reply. so i text her and ask hows she is feeling. no reply. Now normally with any chick i would say well f*ck her then and leave it, but i know this girl likes me and likes being with me when we r together so i was kinda confused. i called her again around 9pm but no reply. Immediately i knew this was AFC **** i was doing but im confused as to why she suddenly is ignoring me?

u guys got any ideas?

Sid
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Shezz said:
Ask yourself!

Dont you deserve more?
Dont you WANT more?
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Hell yeah! Good point Shezz.

I know Sid. He is my main man and sarging buddy some saturday nights. I have seen him around chicks since getting into the game, and he does well!

Sid,

We have all been there and a lot of the time what chicks say and what they do doesn't make sense.

Go out, pick up, and lay 3 HB8+ chicks. You won't even remember this chick's name afterwards.
 
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Aye. Dont get in contact. Effectively ignore her. If she rings you and wants to meet up reject her first proposal....your busy....That can be your sh!t test to her to mesaure intrest. Then make another date. Until then....Look for other girls and treat her as if you have nexted her.
 
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thanks guys. I see all your points.

Practice makes perfect...

Sarging on...
 
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Sid said:
About a month ago I took this girl out for a drink etc and we ended up in bed together that night. Nice girl, good personality and I'd say HB6. Anyway since that night we have met another 3 or 4 times and every time we have had sex...sometimes at my place and sometimes at hers.

.....

So...its thursday now and no word from her. I call her around lunchtime...no reply. so i text her and ask hows she is feeling. no reply. Now normally with any chick i would say well f*ck her then and leave it, but i know this girl likes me and likes being with me when we r together so i was kinda confused. i called her again around 9pm but no reply. Immediately i knew this was AFC **** i was doing but im confused as to why she suddenly is ignoring me?

u guys got any ideas?

Sid
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Both of you have had sex already, and for some reason her interest dropped right off the scale. Next.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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