"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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There's this woman I work with who keeps texting me. Don't see her too often as we work different shifts. Anyway, she has a bf & I have a gf but she displays mayjor interest to me (lots of kino, sexual talk etc..). She says she only likes me as a friend but she acts like its more than that! I just tease and neg her a lot, no real friend talk goes on. I know you shouldn't listen to what a woman says so do you think she could like me even though she text me saying she doesn't (maybe because the bf & I have a gf?) Her friends also thinks she likes me :L

Any help on this chick appreciated
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tictac said:
She's using game on you. If you're interested, game back, see where it leads as fast as you can move.

Otherwise, enjoy the attention and play.
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Yeah I would agree she's got her game in place, why send me such mixed signals though? Using me as a backup if her & her bf doesn't work or maybe she's planning a change of men? Such a confusing woman!!! :L
 
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acerazor1 said:
There's this woman I work with who keeps texting me. Don't see her too often as we work different shifts. Anyway, she has a bf & I have a gf but she displays mayjor interest to me (lots of kino, sexual talk etc..). She says she only likes me as a friend but she acts like its more than that! I just tease and neg her a lot, no real friend talk goes on. I know you shouldn't listen to what a woman says so do you think she could like me even though she text me saying she doesn't (maybe because the bf & I have a gf?) Her friends also thinks she likes me :L

Any help on this chick appreciated
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Judging by your conversations with her I say she's into you, but you have a girlfriend to think about.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Tictac said:
Push-pull. Works doesn't it? Turn it around on her.

She's a woman. They don't think like we do.
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So do chicks use these techniques on purpose like us men do? Or do some just unintentionally use them?
 
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Most girls like to play a bit for attention, some take it further then others. I think most of them wouldn't actually follow through on it though, they just like it as a kind of fantasy. It's best that it stays that way especially as you work with her so just enjoy the play.

Interesting question would be: would she be so into you if you didn't have gf? Does she just feel ok playing with you knowing that it can't lead anywhere?
 
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