"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Confused By This Woman!!

OI812

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Hi, Im new here and have been reading for awhile. I was wanting some opinions on this chick I meet.

Heres this situation, this chick had her best friend get my number, so she calls me and wants me to go out with her another couple. By this time, we had talked several times on the phone. So I do and we go out to dinner. After dinner, the friend (couple) leaves, and she says shes tired and wants to go home (its only 9:00 PM). So I tried to give her a goodbuy kiss and she turned a cheek to me (I didn't think much of it). The following week, I asked her out, and we went to a baseball game (she loves sports) and afterwards, I tried to take her to dinner and she says she has a lot to and has to get home. Again I tried to kiss her and she turns and gives me a hug. By now im wondering what I did wrong. I asked her out again this past weekend and she said she had plans.

This girl calls me every day to talk and acts like she's so into me but when it comes down to it, she seems scared. Her best friend says that all she talks about is wanting a boyfriend. The other night after the game, her friend called me and asked me if "I got any"...I told her I couldn't even get a kiss. Her friend just laughed.

That first night when we went out (with the couple) I overheard her talking to her friend about having condoms in her purse. So I know she's not scared. What gives with this girl. Its not like Im trying to play her.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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blong1068

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She wants a boyfriend, but not a guy who wants her. You are showing way too much interest, that's why she doesn't want to pork you. Be a jerk for a week or two, and if you still aren't in her pants, NEXT.
 

Maestro Monk

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Next..one thing i would advise against in the future is telling her friend/s any details about your date/s. If they ask, just tell them to "ask her", or, you if you must, use as little detail as possible. Or you could always tell her to quit acting jealous. :D
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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1) don't talk to other women about people you are dating - ever. Basically every word out of your mouth will be spread to every women within spitting distance of her friend.
2) she doesn't like you (for whatever reason) - stop wasting your time. If she calls just ignore it and move on to someone that likes you.
 
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