"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Confused By This Woman!!

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Hi, Im new here and have been reading for awhile. I was wanting some opinions on this chick I meet.

Heres this situation, this chick had her best friend get my number, so she calls me and wants me to go out with her another couple. By this time, we had talked several times on the phone. So I do and we go out to dinner. After dinner, the friend (couple) leaves, and she says shes tired and wants to go home (its only 9:00 PM). So I tried to give her a goodbuy kiss and she turned a cheek to me (I didn't think much of it). The following week, I asked her out, and we went to a baseball game (she loves sports) and afterwards, I tried to take her to dinner and she says she has a lot to and has to get home. Again I tried to kiss her and she turns and gives me a hug. By now im wondering what I did wrong. I asked her out again this past weekend and she said she had plans.

This girl calls me every day to talk and acts like she's so into me but when it comes down to it, she seems scared. Her best friend says that all she talks about is wanting a boyfriend. The other night after the game, her friend called me and asked me if "I got any"...I told her I couldn't even get a kiss. Her friend just laughed.

That first night when we went out (with the couple) I overheard her talking to her friend about having condoms in her purse. So I know she's not scared. What gives with this girl. Its not like Im trying to play her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She wants a boyfriend, but not a guy who wants her. You are showing way too much interest, that's why she doesn't want to pork you. Be a jerk for a week or two, and if you still aren't in her pants, NEXT.
 
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Next..one thing i would advise against in the future is telling her friend/s any details about your date/s. If they ask, just tell them to "ask her", or, you if you must, use as little detail as possible. Or you could always tell her to quit acting jealous. :D
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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1) don't talk to other women about people you are dating - ever. Basically every word out of your mouth will be spread to every women within spitting distance of her friend.
2) she doesn't like you (for whatever reason) - stop wasting your time. If she calls just ignore it and move on to someone that likes you.
 
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