"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Confused By This Woman!!

OI812

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Hi, Im new here and have been reading for awhile. I was wanting some opinions on this chick I meet.

Heres this situation, this chick had her best friend get my number, so she calls me and wants me to go out with her another couple. By this time, we had talked several times on the phone. So I do and we go out to dinner. After dinner, the friend (couple) leaves, and she says shes tired and wants to go home (its only 9:00 PM). So I tried to give her a goodbuy kiss and she turned a cheek to me (I didn't think much of it). The following week, I asked her out, and we went to a baseball game (she loves sports) and afterwards, I tried to take her to dinner and she says she has a lot to and has to get home. Again I tried to kiss her and she turns and gives me a hug. By now im wondering what I did wrong. I asked her out again this past weekend and she said she had plans.

This girl calls me every day to talk and acts like she's so into me but when it comes down to it, she seems scared. Her best friend says that all she talks about is wanting a boyfriend. The other night after the game, her friend called me and asked me if "I got any"...I told her I couldn't even get a kiss. Her friend just laughed.

That first night when we went out (with the couple) I overheard her talking to her friend about having condoms in her purse. So I know she's not scared. What gives with this girl. Its not like Im trying to play her.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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blong1068

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She wants a boyfriend, but not a guy who wants her. You are showing way too much interest, that's why she doesn't want to pork you. Be a jerk for a week or two, and if you still aren't in her pants, NEXT.
 

Maestro Monk

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Next..one thing i would advise against in the future is telling her friend/s any details about your date/s. If they ask, just tell them to "ask her", or, you if you must, use as little detail as possible. Or you could always tell her to quit acting jealous. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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flexion_

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1) don't talk to other women about people you are dating - ever. Basically every word out of your mouth will be spread to every women within spitting distance of her friend.
2) she doesn't like you (for whatever reason) - stop wasting your time. If she calls just ignore it and move on to someone that likes you.
 
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