No, there's not a chance to increase attraction. That is something that is either there or it isn't. The only exception to that is if you weight like 300 lbs and drop to a healthy weight for your height. If you keep yourself at your best and she isn't into you now, she never will be, period. You're wasting your time. I don't mean to sound negative, but it's frustrating to listen to guys think they can change whether or not someone is attracted to them just by what they say and how they act. You can't. It's about physical chemistry and if it isn't there, you can't force it to be no matter how hard you try.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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