"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Confused by a perfect 10

Wyldfire

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Originally posted by guittarjedi
Yeah Kaine, that's pretty much what I've been doing. Even though I've cranked up the nice level, I still slip into C+F when the opportunities arise. It's become an automatic part of my personality. I literally can't control it.

I know many people think I should just give up. Why should I? As long as we are on a friendly level there is always a chance to increase attraction. Women are fickle, they change there minds every day. Many relationships start out rocky and then grow into romance.

I know some of you think I'm obsessing over this one girl. She's not the only one I'm gaming, just the most challenging one. That's why most of my posts are about her.
No, there's not a chance to increase attraction. That is something that is either there or it isn't. The only exception to that is if you weight like 300 lbs and drop to a healthy weight for your height. If you keep yourself at your best and she isn't into you now, she never will be, period. You're wasting your time. I don't mean to sound negative, but it's frustrating to listen to guys think they can change whether or not someone is attracted to them just by what they say and how they act. You can't. It's about physical chemistry and if it isn't there, you can't force it to be no matter how hard you try.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The female 'hotness to number mark' graph looks like an exponent function and has an asymptote at 10. So it never reaches ten. That's how I look at it.
 
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