No, there's not a chance to increase attraction. That is something that is either there or it isn't. The only exception to that is if you weight like 300 lbs and drop to a healthy weight for your height. If you keep yourself at your best and she isn't into you now, she never will be, period. You're wasting your time. I don't mean to sound negative, but it's frustrating to listen to guys think they can change whether or not someone is attracted to them just by what they say and how they act. You can't. It's about physical chemistry and if it isn't there, you can't force it to be no matter how hard you try.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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