No, there's not a chance to increase attraction. That is something that is either there or it isn't. The only exception to that is if you weight like 300 lbs and drop to a healthy weight for your height. If you keep yourself at your best and she isn't into you now, she never will be, period. You're wasting your time. I don't mean to sound negative, but it's frustrating to listen to guys think they can change whether or not someone is attracted to them just by what they say and how they act. You can't. It's about physical chemistry and if it isn't there, you can't force it to be no matter how hard you try.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Confused by a perfect 10
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