"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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AlwaysSmile

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Hey guys, bear with me on this one :)

So there's this girl who is a year younger than me on my bus. She looks like she's the quiet type and I had some good conversations and im pretty sure she was into me at one point (caught her eyeing me a few times and stuff). Around Halloween she asked me what my plans were and I said I'm going out with my friends(I knoww i messed up lol). Anyways the next few days I asked her to hang out with me (twice at diff times) when she sat next to me on my bus. She said she was busy so I just forgot about it. I basically did no contact and spun some plates and now she's trying get my attention again. Should I violate the 2 strikes rule or is does she just want attention?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Amo

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What NorweiganDJ said. It seems a lot of people on this forum completely forget that some girls might actually be busy.
 

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amohield said:
What NorweiganDJ said. It seems a lot of people on this forum completely forget that some girls might actually be busy.
Yes. If I get the "busy" line I'll let it go the first couple times, because it's probably true. Once I get it too much, move on to the next.
 

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Girls might busy?

Yes may be its true that some girls might actually busy,but most of them like to show others they are busy.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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