"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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AlwaysSmile

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Hey guys, bear with me on this one :)

So there's this girl who is a year younger than me on my bus. She looks like she's the quiet type and I had some good conversations and im pretty sure she was into me at one point (caught her eyeing me a few times and stuff). Around Halloween she asked me what my plans were and I said I'm going out with my friends(I knoww i messed up lol). Anyways the next few days I asked her to hang out with me (twice at diff times) when she sat next to me on my bus. She said she was busy so I just forgot about it. I basically did no contact and spun some plates and now she's trying get my attention again. Should I violate the 2 strikes rule or is does she just want attention?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Amo

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What NorweiganDJ said. It seems a lot of people on this forum completely forget that some girls might actually be busy.
 

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amohield said:
What NorweiganDJ said. It seems a lot of people on this forum completely forget that some girls might actually be busy.
Yes. If I get the "busy" line I'll let it go the first couple times, because it's probably true. Once I get it too much, move on to the next.
 

gcramer789

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Girls might busy?

Yes may be its true that some girls might actually busy,but most of them like to show others they are busy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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