"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys, bear with me on this one :)

So there's this girl who is a year younger than me on my bus. She looks like she's the quiet type and I had some good conversations and im pretty sure she was into me at one point (caught her eyeing me a few times and stuff). Around Halloween she asked me what my plans were and I said I'm going out with my friends(I knoww i messed up lol). Anyways the next few days I asked her to hang out with me (twice at diff times) when she sat next to me on my bus. She said she was busy so I just forgot about it. I basically did no contact and spun some plates and now she's trying get my attention again. Should I violate the 2 strikes rule or is does she just want attention?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What NorweiganDJ said. It seems a lot of people on this forum completely forget that some girls might actually be busy.
 
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amohield said:
What NorweiganDJ said. It seems a lot of people on this forum completely forget that some girls might actually be busy.
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Yes. If I get the "busy" line I'll let it go the first couple times, because it's probably true. Once I get it too much, move on to the next.
 
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Girls might busy?

Yes may be its true that some girls might actually busy,but most of them like to show others they are busy.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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