"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Confused about her ..

Ill_Nino

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Hey everyone I would like to know what you think about this girl..

I've been talking to this girl for about 3-4 weeks now (since school started) and I've got a crush on her. She sits right next to me, always glaring at me. When we talk, I see her pupils are dialated and shes always touching my forearm or my wrist. But about a week ago, this guy got his class changed into ours and now thy are talking and passing notes to eachother. She glares at him saying hes cute to me. I don't know if shes trying to get me jealous or what. I asked her friend to see if she likes me but her friend says she doubts it 'cause she already is in love with another guy. Last thurday she started glaring and talking to me again, not even noticing the other guy anymore. Today, she told me about her plans about the future (what shes gonna do, what she wants her husband like and stuff.) Then she told me where she lives and most of her personal info. I don't know if she likes me or what. WHat do you guys think? Should I ask her my self if she likes me or should I be quiet?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Porky

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No. Don't ask her.

Go into class, chat with her. At the end, walk a little with her, and say nonchalantly "hey, I have to go to class. we should hang out some time."

She'll say Yes, Yes, of course I will Ill_Nino! At that point you say "Let me get your number then."

If you ask her if she likes you...no, that is far too blunt and might embarass her.
 

LilKid

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lol

he already asked the friend, she probably told the girl you like, and either you're the laughing stock of their convos, or she does actually like you, thats why shes coming back to you...or maybe she is just winding u up
 

rich_uk

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you should have done something sooner, if she likes this other guy its cos you didnt move in quick enough.

the only way to find out for definite is to ask her, dont bother going through friends cos thats always messed up and the other guys right. if you told her friend then she will have told the one you want.

id say you should just ask her tomorrow in class, dont make a big deal of it just say so would you like to go out tomorrow night? and see what she says.

if she says no its her loss, just move on n tap some other ass.
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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LMFAO What a prick I was hahahaha...

Ill_Nino was my other user name before I changed it to Capt.Jack Sparrow


Man I was a complete afc... "does she like me?" hahahaha... if only I could go back into time and kick myself in the face.

this post embarasses me... haha I've changed so much.. I guess everyone had a post like this when they first joined, right?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Supremo

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Porky said:
No. Don't ask her.

Go into class, chat with her. At the end, walk a little with her, and say nonchalantly "hey, I have to go to class. we should hang out some time."

She'll say Yes, Yes, of course I will Ill_Nino! At that point you say "Let me get your number then."

If you ask her if she likes you...no, that is far too blunt and might embarass her.
True dat.
Don't think that because she touches you and her pupils dilate when she sees you that she'll come on to you.
Be a man. Motha ****in ask her out! At least to hang out, if nothing else.
This other dude is obviously rackin up brownie points with her. Don't miss your chance!
 
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