"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Confused about her ..

Ill_Nino

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Hey everyone I would like to know what you think about this girl..

I've been talking to this girl for about 3-4 weeks now (since school started) and I've got a crush on her. She sits right next to me, always glaring at me. When we talk, I see her pupils are dialated and shes always touching my forearm or my wrist. But about a week ago, this guy got his class changed into ours and now thy are talking and passing notes to eachother. She glares at him saying hes cute to me. I don't know if shes trying to get me jealous or what. I asked her friend to see if she likes me but her friend says she doubts it 'cause she already is in love with another guy. Last thurday she started glaring and talking to me again, not even noticing the other guy anymore. Today, she told me about her plans about the future (what shes gonna do, what she wants her husband like and stuff.) Then she told me where she lives and most of her personal info. I don't know if she likes me or what. WHat do you guys think? Should I ask her my self if she likes me or should I be quiet?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Porky

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No. Don't ask her.

Go into class, chat with her. At the end, walk a little with her, and say nonchalantly "hey, I have to go to class. we should hang out some time."

She'll say Yes, Yes, of course I will Ill_Nino! At that point you say "Let me get your number then."

If you ask her if she likes you...no, that is far too blunt and might embarass her.
 

LilKid

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lol

he already asked the friend, she probably told the girl you like, and either you're the laughing stock of their convos, or she does actually like you, thats why shes coming back to you...or maybe she is just winding u up
 

rich_uk

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you should have done something sooner, if she likes this other guy its cos you didnt move in quick enough.

the only way to find out for definite is to ask her, dont bother going through friends cos thats always messed up and the other guys right. if you told her friend then she will have told the one you want.

id say you should just ask her tomorrow in class, dont make a big deal of it just say so would you like to go out tomorrow night? and see what she says.

if she says no its her loss, just move on n tap some other ass.
 

Capt.Jack Sparrow

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LMFAO What a prick I was hahahaha...

Ill_Nino was my other user name before I changed it to Capt.Jack Sparrow


Man I was a complete afc... "does she like me?" hahahaha... if only I could go back into time and kick myself in the face.

this post embarasses me... haha I've changed so much.. I guess everyone had a post like this when they first joined, right?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Supremo

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Porky said:
No. Don't ask her.

Go into class, chat with her. At the end, walk a little with her, and say nonchalantly "hey, I have to go to class. we should hang out some time."

She'll say Yes, Yes, of course I will Ill_Nino! At that point you say "Let me get your number then."

If you ask her if she likes you...no, that is far too blunt and might embarass her.
True dat.
Don't think that because she touches you and her pupils dilate when she sees you that she'll come on to you.
Be a man. Motha ****in ask her out! At least to hang out, if nothing else.
This other dude is obviously rackin up brownie points with her. Don't miss your chance!
 
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