"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Confident Role Models
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You must be joking, Ross Geller is an AFC, and an obvious one at that.
Remember that episode of Friends where Charlie (his gf at the time), went back to her old boyfriend, the guy who was gonna give Ross a grant or something. Ross in that episode is just blown away by that other guy, he stinks of low status male, and AFCness!, and loses the girl because of it.
Plus whenever he tries to get Rachael by using a 'smooth' line, he can't resist a childish nervous giggle right after. (You must know what I mean).
Add to that how he always exclaims stuff like '4 months!!!, haven't had sex in 4 months!!!!'. I don't think your likely to hear James Bond or any of Vin Diesel's characters saying that!
So Ross Geller as DJ role model?........ I think not!
there's proof that most guys that study too much don't know anything else about life
feministas= school, college want us men to be totally ignorant about relationships and much more ... how much would I like that info like in this site would be a public teaching for kids !
Spike_the_cowboy
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I hope you were joking... If not I just lost all respect for you!
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Confidence matters more than morality among chicks. Either build great things that help humanity or bring wars that bring our civilization to the brink of destruction, and you'll get multitudes of women wet! This quirk in human nature has led to the advancement of civilization and the deaths of millions.
Women love evil men! It takes great confidence to be completely immoral. Here's some more role models:
Adolf Hitler - seduced millions, his wife killed herself with him.
Ted Bundy - still got love letters in death row, like 200 or so.
Attila the hun
Mao Tse Tung
Joe Stalin
G.W. Bush
You get the idea.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
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undesputable
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Spike_the_cowboy
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Do you like talking to women? - if you try that you'll get your head blown off with their leadership. Women would be so covered up that you would not be able to tell what your getting... or rather, risking your life for anyways. And if you go out and laugh and have fun with your friends, you will get shot-- because it is illegal.
Evil guys get female losers. Because they are losers.
Jeez.
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Controling women: isn't that what this is all about? We focus on mind games while some people in history took control from the point of a sword. Both employ the warrior spirit, which we should cultiviate. I hope that you create, rather than destroy, with this spirt, but either will get you laid.
Danm! Forgot about Mengele! You know, the Nazi doctor? By some accounts, Jewish women that he was about to kill or mutilate were intensly attracted to him because of his confidence, looks, and, mostly, how he degraded them.
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Tons of professional athletes:
Michael Jordan (obviously) It definitely takes balls to come out of retirement twice and leave the game that hails you as the best there ever was for another sport that you played briefly in high school just because you loved the comradery involved.
LeBron James - it took a lot of balls to live up to all his hype, I mean just look at Darko....
Tom Brady - the guy was originally a 6th round pick and thought to be a backup third-string quarterback at best in his NFL career.
Tim Duncan - lots of skill but no ego.
Sh!t i could go on and on....
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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DITTO!
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no, they just act that way so he keeps talking to them longer... the longer they are on the air, the more publicity they get. Howard can pull a lot of strings for them and help them get a start in show business, but he's too smart to let himself be used like that.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.