"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Confident Role Models

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Originally posted by Andress
nope ...why ?
You must be joking, Ross Geller is an AFC, and an obvious one at that.

Remember that episode of Friends where Charlie (his gf at the time), went back to her old boyfriend, the guy who was gonna give Ross a grant or something. Ross in that episode is just blown away by that other guy, he stinks of low status male, and AFCness!, and loses the girl because of it.

Plus whenever he tries to get Rachael by using a 'smooth' line, he can't resist a childish nervous giggle right after. (You must know what I mean).

Add to that how he always exclaims stuff like '4 months!!!, haven't had sex in 4 months!!!!'. I don't think your likely to hear James Bond or any of Vin Diesel's characters saying that! ;)

So Ross Geller as DJ role model?........ I think not!
 

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course I'm kidding ... he's a wuss ... he's funny though
there's proof that most guys that study too much don't know anything else about life
feministas= school, college want us men to be totally ignorant about relationships and much more ... how much would I like that info like in this site would be a public teaching for kids !
 

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Originally posted by Andress
Fidel Castro

saddam hussein

Osama bil laden

I hope you were joking... If not I just lost all respect for you!

:cool:
 

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They're world leaders! Of course they're confident. In fact, they have megalomania - the highest and most insane levels of confidence. And b*tches love them!

Confidence matters more than morality among chicks. Either build great things that help humanity or bring wars that bring our civilization to the brink of destruction, and you'll get multitudes of women wet! This quirk in human nature has led to the advancement of civilization and the deaths of millions.

Women love evil men! It takes great confidence to be completely immoral. Here's some more role models:

Adolf Hitler - seduced millions, his wife killed herself with him.

Ted Bundy - still got love letters in death row, like 200 or so.

Attila the hun

Mao Tse Tung

Joe Stalin

G.W. Bush

You get the idea.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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yea got a point.... the evil guys sure do get the hunnies...
 

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no one has said this one yet but i think its a good one if u watch basketball - kobe bryant, everything he does on court and in interviews is with unbelievable confidence and u can just look at him and know he thinks he can do anything and most of the time he does
 

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new one now; brad pitt playing achilles in troy
 

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howard stern is the man....alsmot every single beautiful girl that goes to his show gets a crush on him.....
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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No, they are AFC's. Why?-- Because they have to control women.

Do you like talking to women? - if you try that you'll get your head blown off with their leadership. Women would be so covered up that you would not be able to tell what your getting... or rather, risking your life for anyways. And if you go out and laugh and have fun with your friends, you will get shot-- because it is illegal.

Evil guys get female losers. Because they are losers.

Jeez.

:rolleyes:
 

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I disagree. I think it was said that half the world is related to Gangus Khan. You may quibble over whether he used the dj bible or not, but he got a lot of p*ssy (and I'll bet a lot of it was CONSENTUAL in addition to rapes).

Controling women: isn't that what this is all about? We focus on mind games while some people in history took control from the point of a sword. Both employ the warrior spirit, which we should cultiviate. I hope that you create, rather than destroy, with this spirt, but either will get you laid.

Danm! Forgot about Mengele! You know, the Nazi doctor? By some accounts, Jewish women that he was about to kill or mutilate were intensly attracted to him because of his confidence, looks, and, mostly, how he degraded them.
 

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Sh!t I thought this post would be kind of pointless, but I guess I will bite.

Tons of professional athletes:
Michael Jordan (obviously) It definitely takes balls to come out of retirement twice and leave the game that hails you as the best there ever was for another sport that you played briefly in high school just because you loved the comradery involved.

LeBron James - it took a lot of balls to live up to all his hype, I mean just look at Darko....

Tom Brady - the guy was originally a 6th round pick and thought to be a backup third-string quarterback at best in his NFL career.

Tim Duncan - lots of skill but no ego.

Sh!t i could go on and on....
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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dictators ... are leaders


stephen covey

"seven habits of higly effective people"
 

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Originally posted by Dirtheart
I agree with many of those mentioned. However, I don't think I could ever aspire to be like those rappers you mentioned. Take away their money and success and you're left with a very cliched, immature and (in some cases) a somewhat mentally retarded impression. Nothing makes me cringe more than a wannabe rapper. R&B artists have more class though, so I agree there.
DITTO!
 

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Originally posted by undesputable
howard stern is the man....alsmot every single beautiful girl that goes to his show gets a crush on him.....
no, they just act that way so he keeps talking to them longer... the longer they are on the air, the more publicity they get. Howard can pull a lot of strings for them and help them get a start in show business, but he's too smart to let himself be used like that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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