EmotionalGeek
Senior Don Juan
I lately think that confidence is exactly same thing as holding solid frame. Do you think there is any difference?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Confidence vs holding frame
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SgtSplacker
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They are almost the same thing. But frame is more egocentric than confidence. Frame is what its all about man.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Frame is projecting confidence...the way you move, the way you talk, posture, etc....which then translates to looks.
But, confidence must have a foundation for that frame.
Think: granite rock vs play dough.
IOW, don't build your house on the sand:
But, confidence must have a foundation for that frame.
Think: granite rock vs play dough.
IOW, don't build your house on the sand: