"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Confidence vs holding frame

EmotionalGeek

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I lately think that confidence is exactly same thing as holding solid frame. Do you think there is any difference?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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AlphaNate

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You can have confidence without having solid frame, but you can't have a solid frame without confidence.
 

SgtSplacker

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They are almost the same thing. But frame is more egocentric than confidence. Frame is what its all about man.
 

wifehunter

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Frame is projecting confidence...the way you move, the way you talk, posture, etc....which then translates to looks.

But, confidence must have a foundation for that frame.

Think: granite rock vs play dough.

IOW, don't build your house on the sand:

 
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