EmotionalGeek
Senior Don Juan
I lately think that confidence is exactly same thing as holding solid frame. Do you think there is any difference?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Confidence vs holding frame
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
SgtSplacker
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They are almost the same thing. But frame is more egocentric than confidence. Frame is what its all about man.
wifehunter
Master Don Juan
Frame is projecting confidence...the way you move, the way you talk, posture, etc....which then translates to looks.
But, confidence must have a foundation for that frame.
Think: granite rock vs play dough.
IOW, don't build your house on the sand:
But, confidence must have a foundation for that frame.
Think: granite rock vs play dough.
IOW, don't build your house on the sand: