"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Confidence DOESN'T attract women

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Babnik said:
What if all your past experiences were bad? How can you try again with confidence if experiences were bad?

If they were bad then you were proven to be IN-capable, right? So, how do you convince yourself otherwise?
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You don't.

You prove it.

You prove it by doing it.

Yes. That's the only way to turn it around.

I've been in this position. Everyone has. There is only one thing you can do.

Get the **** out there and act. Act relentlessly. Move toward your goal. If your goal is competence with women, and you do not feel like you'll ever get there, **** the way you feel.

Seriously. Fvck the way you feel. Just make it happen.

How? By doing whatever it takes for as long as it takes.

This whole thing is extremely simple. I assure you of this. It is not complex. It is simple. Get out there, learn from naturals, learn from men who've built up natural game. Myself. Pook. Juggler. Zan. Razorjack. Gunwitch.

The only way you will build condifence from nothing is by going out there and trying to do this EVEN THOUGH you feel like broken and weak.

In fact, I'll go further.

Go out there and do this BECAUSE you feel broken and weak.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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drjekyll said:
You don't.

You prove it.

You prove it by doing it.

Yes. That's the only way to turn it around.

I've been in this position. Everyone has. There is only one thing you can do.

Get the **** out there and act. Act relentlessly. Move toward your goal. If your goal is competence with women, and you do not feel like you'll ever get there, **** the way you feel.

Seriously. Fvck the way you feel. Just make it happen.

How? By doing whatever it takes for as long as it takes.

This whole thing is extremely simple. I assure you of this. It is not complex. It is simple. Get out there, learn from naturals, learn from men who've built up natural game. Myself. Pook. Juggler. Zan. Razorjack. Gunwitch.

The only way you will build condifence from nothing is by going out there and trying to do this EVEN THOUGH you feel like broken and weak.

In fact, I'll go further.

Go out there and do this BECAUSE you feel broken and weak.
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I totally agree
 
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PRMoon,

I think it is great you have a attracted a beautiful women....who gets gifts from rich guys.

But.....I'm not saying that celebrities and athletes are the only one who date hot women or that they ALWAYS beat out an average guy. There are always exceptions. Everybody is different. Attraction is about perceived superiority.
 
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How are you defining superiority? How am I superior to these guys? I mean from what I've seen, they're just as attractive as I am and they've got more social status then I do. They've got me beat on just about every front but I know how to beat them because I'm able to read signs and play the game better then they do. Being a player takes an intangible skill of staying in the game, knowing how to create attraction and having the confidence to see yourself closing from start to finish.
 
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drjekyll,

you are one of my heroes.

comic_relief
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Look at the "examples" in my previous posts on "percieved" SUPERIORITY traits by Men, true life woman, and sorority girl. These ofcourse are just examples....they're a a gazillion more.

Women follow their hearts....And for whatever reason she sees you as more superior then those other guys. I don't know you...so I can't say....GREAT JOB THOUGH.
 
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comic_relief said:
drjekyll,

you are one of my heroes.

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Well thank you very much sir.

*doffs cap*
 
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