"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Confidence DOESN'T attract women

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Babnik said:
What if all your past experiences were bad? How can you try again with confidence if experiences were bad?

If they were bad then you were proven to be IN-capable, right? So, how do you convince yourself otherwise?
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You don't.

You prove it.

You prove it by doing it.

Yes. That's the only way to turn it around.

I've been in this position. Everyone has. There is only one thing you can do.

Get the **** out there and act. Act relentlessly. Move toward your goal. If your goal is competence with women, and you do not feel like you'll ever get there, **** the way you feel.

Seriously. Fvck the way you feel. Just make it happen.

How? By doing whatever it takes for as long as it takes.

This whole thing is extremely simple. I assure you of this. It is not complex. It is simple. Get out there, learn from naturals, learn from men who've built up natural game. Myself. Pook. Juggler. Zan. Razorjack. Gunwitch.

The only way you will build condifence from nothing is by going out there and trying to do this EVEN THOUGH you feel like broken and weak.

In fact, I'll go further.

Go out there and do this BECAUSE you feel broken and weak.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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drjekyll said:
You don't.

You prove it.

You prove it by doing it.

Yes. That's the only way to turn it around.

I've been in this position. Everyone has. There is only one thing you can do.

Get the **** out there and act. Act relentlessly. Move toward your goal. If your goal is competence with women, and you do not feel like you'll ever get there, **** the way you feel.

Seriously. Fvck the way you feel. Just make it happen.

How? By doing whatever it takes for as long as it takes.

This whole thing is extremely simple. I assure you of this. It is not complex. It is simple. Get out there, learn from naturals, learn from men who've built up natural game. Myself. Pook. Juggler. Zan. Razorjack. Gunwitch.

The only way you will build condifence from nothing is by going out there and trying to do this EVEN THOUGH you feel like broken and weak.

In fact, I'll go further.

Go out there and do this BECAUSE you feel broken and weak.
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I totally agree
 
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rakishness

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PRMoon,

I think it is great you have a attracted a beautiful women....who gets gifts from rich guys.

But.....I'm not saying that celebrities and athletes are the only one who date hot women or that they ALWAYS beat out an average guy. There are always exceptions. Everybody is different. Attraction is about perceived superiority.
 
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How are you defining superiority? How am I superior to these guys? I mean from what I've seen, they're just as attractive as I am and they've got more social status then I do. They've got me beat on just about every front but I know how to beat them because I'm able to read signs and play the game better then they do. Being a player takes an intangible skill of staying in the game, knowing how to create attraction and having the confidence to see yourself closing from start to finish.
 
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drjekyll,

you are one of my heroes.

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rakishness

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Look at the "examples" in my previous posts on "percieved" SUPERIORITY traits by Men, true life woman, and sorority girl. These ofcourse are just examples....they're a a gazillion more.

Women follow their hearts....And for whatever reason she sees you as more superior then those other guys. I don't know you...so I can't say....GREAT JOB THOUGH.
 
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comic_relief said:
drjekyll,

you are one of my heroes.

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Well thank you very much sir.

*doffs cap*
 
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