"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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saber101

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Might be using a condom for the first time. Dont really know what to choose, also dont know if it will fit me. im long but not girthy so i dont want it to slip off. Any suggestions?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Make sure to pick the right size...If it's too big, it'll slip off. If it's too small, it'll tear(personal experience here). Buy afew different sizes and experiment...It's not something u wanna make a mistake with.
 

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go buy different ones and test them out. what else can i tell you? if its your first time, make sure you know how to properly put it on haha. its not hard.

you know, you can always ask the umm pharmacist person at the drug store who sells the condoms for some advice. it is their job after all to help the customers, ;]
 

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I don't see why people gte embarrsed when they buy condoms. It's like "fkuk im getting laid!"
 

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are you magnum size? then get those otherwise I recommend those durex fetherlites (ultrafine)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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yea bro, when u by condoms wink at the Cashier if its a chick,
 

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I get mine on the internet. Easy, simple, and doesn't involve any embarrassing situations in the chemist. Ba da bing!

As for the type, I recommend Durex Featherlites. Always worked best I find.
 

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you're gonna hate the feeling of a condom, that is assuming you've fvcked without one.
Trojan Ultrathins.
 

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Patrick124 said:
you're gonna hate the feeling of a condom, that is assuming you've fvcked without one.
Trojan Ultrathins.
haha no first time bro. but theres a mall close to my house and they sell lifestyles brand in the bathroom. Think i should trust it?
 

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I wouldn't trust it any more than I trust there isnt traces of sh*t all over the floor. Go to a drug store/711/whatever.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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saber101

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supajsilver2 said:
I wouldn't trust it any more than I trust there isnt traces of sh*t all over the floor. Go to a drug store/711/whatever.
I went and bought a regular sized one, and a small fitting one, just to see which one fit me best. The small one was too small and the average one was just about right.

So here's whats happening on friday. I'm going to my friends party with this chick thats madly in love with me. Im driving her there and back, shell be drinking and i wont. So im pretty much in. Do you think that if all goes well i could just stop at the drug store after the party if i need to?
 

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saber101 said:
I went and bought a regular sized one, and a small fitting one, just to see which one fit me best. The small one was too small and the average one was just about right.

So here's whats happening on friday. I'm going to my friends party with this chick thats madly in love with me. Im driving her there and back, shell be drinking and i wont. So im pretty much in. Do you think that if all goes well i could just stop at the drug store after the party if i need to?
why stop at the drug store after the party. keep a couple in your wallet, pocket, or car. just be mature dude, make sure you understand your priorities, and you can handle all the consquences for your actions.

~good luck, be safe, have fun.
PleasureKing
 

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PleasureKing said:
why stop at the drug store after the party. <b>keep a couple in your wallet, pocket</b>, or car. just be mature dude, make sure you understand your priorities, and you can handle all the consquences for your actions.

~good luck, be safe, have fun.
PleasureKing
Noooooo.
Don't keep them in your wallet.
Keep them inside your car.

If you want to carry them around with you, get a little aluminum/metal container so that you don't accidently damage them or anything...personally, I use the little altoid containers and just put it in my pocket.
 

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And i carry mine in a Sucrets case. Those are sore throat things, btw.
 

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Trojan Extended Pleasure

Yikes, posted this in the wrong forum. Silly me.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PRMoon said:
These condoms suck. They burn slightly and my arms litterally gave out last night and I didn't get my rocks off. I was very unsatisfied.

I'm sticking with the ultra thins...unless I'm with a girl who I want to teach a lesson to.
You used it to jack off?
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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