"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
PleasureKing
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you know, you can always ask the umm pharmacist person at the drug store who sells the condoms for some advice. it is their job after all to help the customers, ;]
Cloudtopsun2100
Senior Don Juan
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
Trojan Ultrathins.
supajsilver2
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I went and bought a regular sized one, and a small fitting one, just to see which one fit me best. The small one was too small and the average one was just about right.supajsilver2 said:
So here's whats happening on friday. I'm going to my friends party with this chick thats madly in love with me. Im driving her there and back, shell be drinking and i wont. So im pretty much in. Do you think that if all goes well i could just stop at the drug store after the party if i need to?
PleasureKing
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why stop at the drug store after the party. keep a couple in your wallet, pocket, or car. just be mature dude, make sure you understand your priorities, and you can handle all the consquences for your actions.saber101 said:
~good luck, be safe, have fun.
PleasureKing
bob88
Don Juan
Noooooo.PleasureKing said:
Don't keep them in your wallet.
Keep them inside your car.
If you want to carry them around with you, get a little aluminum/metal container so that you don't accidently damage them or anything...personally, I use the little altoid containers and just put it in my pocket.
PRMoon
Master Don Juan
Yikes, posted this in the wrong forum. Silly me.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
qweretyuiopas
Master Don Juan
You used it to jack off?PRMoon said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.