"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Condoms... in plain view, or hidden?

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When you have a girl coming over to your place, do you hide em or make sure they're visible?
For example would it be appropriate to leave them out in the bathroom...

Would the sight of condoms scare or excite a girl who is let's say a virgin and you're trying to get her drunk?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Would the sight of condoms scare or excite a girl who is let's say a virgin and you're trying to get her drunk?
Only way you'd see her ass is when she's running out :crackup:
 

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if you've never had sex with her before, hide them. If you're on the way to doing it she'll ask if you have protection.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My guy hides them and then forgets where he put them after a night of partying! :crazy: :nervous: :crackup:
 

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Would the sight of condoms scare or excite a girl who is let's say a virgin and you're trying to get her drunk?
I wish I had been drinking milk when I read this. It would have shot out my nose. There are so many things wrong with this statement, it's brilliant. I want to put this on a bumper sticker.
 

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fu * K That S H I * T i mean busines i put it in plain view

make sure shes sees it. virgin or not. it has its benifits . the topic of sex will come up
 
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It'd say hide them in place where she might find them.

Like in your top drawer or in your medicine cabinet. That way she will "find" the condoms if she goes snooping. It shows that you intend to have sex but your not displaying it in the same way if you leave them out in the open.
 

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Hidden.

If they are in plain view, the ASD will be in full force.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Oh wow :crackup:

hide them quick. Even if you get her into bed, you slipping on the condom should be seamless and not noticeable.
 

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Nexus Polaris said:
I wish I had been drinking milk when I read this. It would have shot out my nose. There are so many things wrong with this statement, it's brilliant. I want to put this on a bumper sticker.
Haha i'm glad my total lack of morals amuses you guys. :p


The thing is the place where i'm at doesn't have a medicine cabinet. I just have a shelf infront of the mirror to display all my things. So my only choice is there or in my drawer next to my bed.

Guess i'll go with the drawer, in the bathroom it's on FULL display, and i doubt she wants to see the condoms until she is "ready". lol
 
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