"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Condoms... in plain view, or hidden?

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When you have a girl coming over to your place, do you hide em or make sure they're visible?
For example would it be appropriate to leave them out in the bathroom...

Would the sight of condoms scare or excite a girl who is let's say a virgin and you're trying to get her drunk?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Would the sight of condoms scare or excite a girl who is let's say a virgin and you're trying to get her drunk?
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Only way you'd see her ass is when she's running out :crackup:
 
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if you've never had sex with her before, hide them. If you're on the way to doing it she'll ask if you have protection.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My guy hides them and then forgets where he put them after a night of partying! :crazy: :nervous: :crackup:
 
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Play the Game said:
Would the sight of condoms scare or excite a girl who is let's say a virgin and you're trying to get her drunk?
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I wish I had been drinking milk when I read this. It would have shot out my nose. There are so many things wrong with this statement, it's brilliant. I want to put this on a bumper sticker.
 
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fu * K That S H I * T i mean busines i put it in plain view

make sure shes sees it. virgin or not. it has its benifits . the topic of sex will come up
 
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It'd say hide them in place where she might find them.

Like in your top drawer or in your medicine cabinet. That way she will "find" the condoms if she goes snooping. It shows that you intend to have sex but your not displaying it in the same way if you leave them out in the open.
 
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Hidden.

If they are in plain view, the ASD will be in full force.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Oh wow :crackup:

hide them quick. Even if you get her into bed, you slipping on the condom should be seamless and not noticeable.
 
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Nexus Polaris said:
I wish I had been drinking milk when I read this. It would have shot out my nose. There are so many things wrong with this statement, it's brilliant. I want to put this on a bumper sticker.
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Haha i'm glad my total lack of morals amuses you guys. :p


The thing is the place where i'm at doesn't have a medicine cabinet. I just have a shelf infront of the mirror to display all my things. So my only choice is there or in my drawer next to my bed.

Guess i'll go with the drawer, in the bathroom it's on FULL display, and i doubt she wants to see the condoms until she is "ready". lol
 
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