"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Condoms... in plain view, or hidden?

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When you have a girl coming over to your place, do you hide em or make sure they're visible?
For example would it be appropriate to leave them out in the bathroom...

Would the sight of condoms scare or excite a girl who is let's say a virgin and you're trying to get her drunk?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Would the sight of condoms scare or excite a girl who is let's say a virgin and you're trying to get her drunk?
Only way you'd see her ass is when she's running out :crackup:
 

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if you've never had sex with her before, hide them. If you're on the way to doing it she'll ask if you have protection.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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My guy hides them and then forgets where he put them after a night of partying! :crazy: :nervous: :crackup:
 

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Would the sight of condoms scare or excite a girl who is let's say a virgin and you're trying to get her drunk?
I wish I had been drinking milk when I read this. It would have shot out my nose. There are so many things wrong with this statement, it's brilliant. I want to put this on a bumper sticker.
 

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fu * K That S H I * T i mean busines i put it in plain view

make sure shes sees it. virgin or not. it has its benifits . the topic of sex will come up
 
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It'd say hide them in place where she might find them.

Like in your top drawer or in your medicine cabinet. That way she will "find" the condoms if she goes snooping. It shows that you intend to have sex but your not displaying it in the same way if you leave them out in the open.
 

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Hidden.

If they are in plain view, the ASD will be in full force.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Oh wow :crackup:

hide them quick. Even if you get her into bed, you slipping on the condom should be seamless and not noticeable.
 

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Nexus Polaris said:
I wish I had been drinking milk when I read this. It would have shot out my nose. There are so many things wrong with this statement, it's brilliant. I want to put this on a bumper sticker.
Haha i'm glad my total lack of morals amuses you guys. :p


The thing is the place where i'm at doesn't have a medicine cabinet. I just have a shelf infront of the mirror to display all my things. So my only choice is there or in my drawer next to my bed.

Guess i'll go with the drawer, in the bathroom it's on FULL display, and i doubt she wants to see the condoms until she is "ready". lol
 
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