My Name is Nobody
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tick37 said:I have no f'ing clue, !
Well if you don't know, who the hell does??
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
tick37 said:I have no f'ing clue, !
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
That's what I'm screaming!My Name is Nobody said:Well if you don't know, who the hell does??
tick37 said:That's what I'm screaming!
My Name is Nobody said:I was b!tching about this on the board the night it happened just like the OP. I don't know if anyone remembers when I was bragging about how I nutted in her face.
tick37 said:Guess what! Nobody cares! You come her to get validation. You spill your guts about all this crap you've done with women. You constantly talk about yourself. Everything relates to YOU. Once you realize that it isn't always about you, you'll be the sh1t.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
tick37 said:No, don't give advice. Start learning. I don't like where you are right now. I'm not perfect, but I do know that you aren't happy. You aren't relying on yourself, but I want you to.
get the pill yourself and force feed it to her. Unless you think she s the type of mother you want for your kid.sexy_kuta said:so now the thing, i dunno wtf to do, she just got off her period, i told her to go take the morning pill today,
she doesnt seem to care much she has the 'meh' type of additude,
People can barely stay together for 6 months let alone the rest of their lives... having a kid now only mean you are obligated to pay her money everymonth.. she will still go out and f whom ever she wants..LOLtick37 said:Condom broke! Guess what, you might be a dad. Own up. If not, stop fvcking and fvck the girl you're willing to live with the rest of your life. I don't feel sorry for you because you knrew what your sperm would do. Good luck!
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
STOP!!!!Dont get too happy yet... Make sure it is a full period that lasts the full 3 to 5 days and not just "implantation spotting" which many silly hos and slut mistake for a period...sexy_kuta said:yooo,
so she just had her period today,
good sign? so i can finally drop her purse off?
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
good point, how long does that take to see afterwards?DonGorgon said:STOP!!!!Dont get too happy yet... Make sure it is a full period that lasts the full 3 to 5 days and not just "implantation spotting" which many silly hos and slut mistake for a period...
**** yea,vagrant said:if you didn't use a condom but you didn't *** inside..can you get your girlfriend pregnant? lately i've been f*ckin my girl without a condom but i pull out..now i know i should always bring one with me all the time!~
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.