My Name is Nobody
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tick37 said:I have no f'ing clue, !
Well if you don't know, who the hell does??
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
tick37 said:I have no f'ing clue, !
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
That's what I'm screaming!My Name is Nobody said:Well if you don't know, who the hell does??
tick37 said:That's what I'm screaming!
My Name is Nobody said:I was b!tching about this on the board the night it happened just like the OP. I don't know if anyone remembers when I was bragging about how I nutted in her face.
tick37 said:Guess what! Nobody cares! You come her to get validation. You spill your guts about all this crap you've done with women. You constantly talk about yourself. Everything relates to YOU. Once you realize that it isn't always about you, you'll be the sh1t.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
tick37 said:No, don't give advice. Start learning. I don't like where you are right now. I'm not perfect, but I do know that you aren't happy. You aren't relying on yourself, but I want you to.
get the pill yourself and force feed it to her. Unless you think she s the type of mother you want for your kid.sexy_kuta said:so now the thing, i dunno wtf to do, she just got off her period, i told her to go take the morning pill today,
she doesnt seem to care much she has the 'meh' type of additude,
People can barely stay together for 6 months let alone the rest of their lives... having a kid now only mean you are obligated to pay her money everymonth.. she will still go out and f whom ever she wants..LOLtick37 said:Condom broke! Guess what, you might be a dad. Own up. If not, stop fvcking and fvck the girl you're willing to live with the rest of your life. I don't feel sorry for you because you knrew what your sperm would do. Good luck!
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
STOP!!!!Dont get too happy yet... Make sure it is a full period that lasts the full 3 to 5 days and not just "implantation spotting" which many silly hos and slut mistake for a period...sexy_kuta said:yooo,
so she just had her period today,
good sign? so i can finally drop her purse off?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
good point, how long does that take to see afterwards?DonGorgon said:STOP!!!!Dont get too happy yet... Make sure it is a full period that lasts the full 3 to 5 days and not just "implantation spotting" which many silly hos and slut mistake for a period...
**** yea,vagrant said:if you didn't use a condom but you didn't *** inside..can you get your girlfriend pregnant? lately i've been f*ckin my girl without a condom but i pull out..now i know i should always bring one with me all the time!~
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.