Maximus Rex
Banned
Nuff 'said.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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Nuff 'said.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Being that I'm incredibly lazy, it's not a hassle at all. In this case, I did a Google search for "Welcome to the 21st Century," and that Willie Wonka meme came up. I copied the link, then posted it on here.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Very different. Very new tho too.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
WanderingMan
Senior Don Juan
Haven't looked at all the features yet, seems kind of facebooky. Think they should still have the posters # of posts up, and some kind of rating system, other than "likes" or whatever.
Maybe it'll just take some time to get used to. First glance though - not a fan.
Maybe it'll just take some time to get used to. First glance though - not a fan.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
It kind of makes arguing your point a little bit better.
For example, when you consider:
And this:
One may naturally conclude thus:
For example, when you consider:
And this:
One may naturally conclude thus:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Go to the top. It says forums = your name etc. Hit the =. A box drops down. Click members. Viola! Members from most posts to least in order.
WanderingMan
Senior Don Juan
Okay, I see.....
Thanks!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I like how, for us mods, the 'report' button for users is a lot more organized and easier to manage. When you report a post now, we have like a control panel and can go right to it.
Plus mobile support is nice.
Plus mobile support is nice.
