Maximus Rex
Banned
Nuff 'said.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Nuff 'said.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Maximus Rex
Banned
Being that I'm incredibly lazy, it's not a hassle at all. In this case, I did a Google search for "Welcome to the 21st Century," and that Willie Wonka meme came up. I copied the link, then posted it on here.
PrettyBoyAJ
Master Don Juan
Very different. Very new tho too.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
WanderingMan
Senior Don Juan
Haven't looked at all the features yet, seems kind of facebooky. Think they should still have the posters # of posts up, and some kind of rating system, other than "likes" or whatever.
Maybe it'll just take some time to get used to. First glance though - not a fan.
Maybe it'll just take some time to get used to. First glance though - not a fan.
taiyuu_otoko
Master Don Juan
It kind of makes arguing your point a little bit better.
For example, when you consider:
And this:
One may naturally conclude thus:
For example, when you consider:
And this:
One may naturally conclude thus:
penkitten
Master Don Juan
Go to the top. It says forums = your name etc. Hit the =. A box drops down. Click members. Viola! Members from most posts to least in order.
WanderingMan
Senior Don Juan
Okay, I see.....
Thanks!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Skyline
Master Don Juan
I like how, for us mods, the 'report' button for users is a lot more organized and easier to manage. When you report a post now, we have like a control panel and can go right to it.
Plus mobile support is nice.
Plus mobile support is nice.
