"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Nuff 'said.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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How much time do you spend scouring the internet for all those pictures and saving them to your computer? Seems like a hassle.
Being that I'm incredibly lazy, it's not a hassle at all. In this case, I did a Google search for "Welcome to the 21st Century," and that Willie Wonka meme came up. I copied the link, then posted it on here.
 

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I suppose this was a sneaky way to clean trolling on sosuave.TBH,I don't like the look.So byebye y'all.I'll miss the tits and poon days.Or perhaps I'm getting too old for this forum....
 

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Very different. Very new tho too.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This is MUCH better. It's also optimized for mobile applications as well. Checking SoSuave on my phone used to be a hassle.
 

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Haven't looked at all the features yet, seems kind of facebooky. Think they should still have the posters # of posts up, and some kind of rating system, other than "likes" or whatever.

Maybe it'll just take some time to get used to. First glance though - not a fan.
 

taiyuu_otoko

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It kind of makes arguing your point a little bit better.

For example, when you consider:




And this:





One may naturally conclude thus:


 

penkitten

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Haven't looked at all the features yet, seems kind of facebooky. Think they should still have the posters # of posts up, and some kind of rating system, other than "likes" or whatever.

Maybe it'll just take some time to get used to. First glance though - not a fan.
Go to the top. It says forums = your name etc. Hit the =. A box drops down. Click members. Viola! Members from most posts to least in order.
 

WanderingMan

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Go to the top. It says forums = your name etc. Hit the =. A box drops down. Click members. Viola! Members from most posts to least in order.
Okay, I see.....
Thanks!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skyline

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I like how, for us mods, the 'report' button for users is a lot more organized and easier to manage. When you report a post now, we have like a control panel and can go right to it.

Plus mobile support is nice.
 

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Not sure how these forums will make any money. You can see the ads on the old version but it wasn't optimized for mobile use. Anyhoo, not my problem.
 
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