"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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ok so i was testing a theory, as guys we all know how when we're totally into a chick we naturally want to dish out compliments or "sweet nothings"

but also as don juans we know not to over do this or in some cases avoid it.

i've tried something which i dont know if it has been gone over before but, when i feel like complimenting a girl or saying really nice things i like to instantly kill any signs of "whimp behavior" afterwards.

for example.

"i woke up today and you were on my mind... so do you know any good neurosurgeons?"

all in a playful, mysterious tone. or if done online followed by a wink MAYBE dependin on how sensitive the girl is to a hollow personality that comes with just text.

i'd like the hear thoughts about this, so far i just started using this tactic on two girls with satisfactory results. which is why i figured id make a post about it, two girls is not enough to go in for a patent. thanks guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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