"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ok so i was testing a theory, as guys we all know how when we're totally into a chick we naturally want to dish out compliments or "sweet nothings"

but also as don juans we know not to over do this or in some cases avoid it.

i've tried something which i dont know if it has been gone over before but, when i feel like complimenting a girl or saying really nice things i like to instantly kill any signs of "whimp behavior" afterwards.

for example.

"i woke up today and you were on my mind... so do you know any good neurosurgeons?"

all in a playful, mysterious tone. or if done online followed by a wink MAYBE dependin on how sensitive the girl is to a hollow personality that comes with just text.

i'd like the hear thoughts about this, so far i just started using this tactic on two girls with satisfactory results. which is why i figured id make a post about it, two girls is not enough to go in for a patent. thanks guys.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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