"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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compliments without desperation-esque

cNfny

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ok so i was testing a theory, as guys we all know how when we're totally into a chick we naturally want to dish out compliments or "sweet nothings"

but also as don juans we know not to over do this or in some cases avoid it.

i've tried something which i dont know if it has been gone over before but, when i feel like complimenting a girl or saying really nice things i like to instantly kill any signs of "whimp behavior" afterwards.

for example.

"i woke up today and you were on my mind... so do you know any good neurosurgeons?"

all in a playful, mysterious tone. or if done online followed by a wink MAYBE dependin on how sensitive the girl is to a hollow personality that comes with just text.

i'd like the hear thoughts about this, so far i just started using this tactic on two girls with satisfactory results. which is why i figured id make a post about it, two girls is not enough to go in for a patent. thanks guys.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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