I play the CnF really well.. (although i think too much.. i get called an ******* but the girls are always smiling and hitting me when they do it..playful light hearted).. but i noticed with some girls compliment me and call me cute to me directly.. it doesnt seem a girl would do that straight up without thinking about the consequences of what i think.. i wanna know is that a LJBF indicator?
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
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Compliments from HBs?
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Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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I'm not quite sure I read you. Are you saying that after you are C&F, they say "You're cute?"J.kelly said:
If that is the case, pay attention to her body language and tone of voice. If her tone is energetic and her proximity/eye contact is good, that's an IOI. If she kinda smirks and her tone is such that "this guy is harmless," and you feel like she is about to grab your cheeks like a grandma would and say "you're cute," then she might be enjoying your company but not exactly digging you, if you know what I mean.
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That's essentially what your post said.J.kelly said:
I hope its self-explanatory.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.