I play the CnF really well.. (although i think too much.. i get called an ******* but the girls are always smiling and hitting me when they do it..playful light hearted).. but i noticed with some girls compliment me and call me cute to me directly.. it doesnt seem a girl would do that straight up without thinking about the consequences of what i think.. i wanna know is that a LJBF indicator?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
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I'm not quite sure I read you. Are you saying that after you are C&F, they say "You're cute?"J.kelly said:
If that is the case, pay attention to her body language and tone of voice. If her tone is energetic and her proximity/eye contact is good, that's an IOI. If she kinda smirks and her tone is such that "this guy is harmless," and you feel like she is about to grab your cheeks like a grandma would and say "you're cute," then she might be enjoying your company but not exactly digging you, if you know what I mean.
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That's essentially what your post said.J.kelly said:
I hope its self-explanatory.
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.