I play the CnF really well.. (although i think too much.. i get called an ******* but the girls are always smiling and hitting me when they do it..playful light hearted).. but i noticed with some girls compliment me and call me cute to me directly.. it doesnt seem a girl would do that straight up without thinking about the consequences of what i think.. i wanna know is that a LJBF indicator?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Compliments from HBs?
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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I'm not quite sure I read you. Are you saying that after you are C&F, they say "You're cute?"J.kelly said:
If that is the case, pay attention to her body language and tone of voice. If her tone is energetic and her proximity/eye contact is good, that's an IOI. If she kinda smirks and her tone is such that "this guy is harmless," and you feel like she is about to grab your cheeks like a grandma would and say "you're cute," then she might be enjoying your company but not exactly digging you, if you know what I mean.
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That's essentially what your post said.J.kelly said:
I hope its self-explanatory.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.