I play the CnF really well.. (although i think too much.. i get called an ******* but the girls are always smiling and hitting me when they do it..playful light hearted).. but i noticed with some girls compliment me and call me cute to me directly.. it doesnt seem a girl would do that straight up without thinking about the consequences of what i think.. i wanna know is that a LJBF indicator?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Compliments from HBs?
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
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I'm not quite sure I read you. Are you saying that after you are C&F, they say "You're cute?"J.kelly said:
If that is the case, pay attention to her body language and tone of voice. If her tone is energetic and her proximity/eye contact is good, that's an IOI. If she kinda smirks and her tone is such that "this guy is harmless," and you feel like she is about to grab your cheeks like a grandma would and say "you're cute," then she might be enjoying your company but not exactly digging you, if you know what I mean.
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That's essentially what your post said.J.kelly said:
I hope its self-explanatory.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.