"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Complimenting your Bro's HO

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Is it out of line to compliment your friend's GF, in front of him? I did that and said something along the lines of "You look sexy [or attractive, i don't remember]". The girl told me afterwards that it was an inappropriate comment. Yet that was the first thing I thought of saying. I suspect that she's not used to me talking like that because she used to know me from times I was AFC. Am I so deep in the friendzone that I'm finding metaphorical tampons? I'm not really going after her at all. Just thought she looked attractive when I said that.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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did you have her pinned up against the wall while you were alone and whispered it in her ear.

if not, i don't think you did anything wrong. i'm pretty sure that once or twice i've told friends girlfriends they look hot, but i'm not sure to be honest.
 
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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
I told her that at the new year's party.
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lol, then tell her to lighten up. That's ridiculous, you're at a party having a good time. Things like that should flow freely in those kinds of moods. You did nothing wrong. She's over reacting.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You could of been doing worse things like banging her.... I dunno whats wrong with telling your friend's girl that she is hot.
 
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I see nothing wrong with it. She did, so don't do it to her again. But telling a girl she looks nice at a party and getting told it was inappropriate? Sounds like a bit of an odd chick . . .
 
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