"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Complimenting her body if you don't know her.

tr0ublemaker

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Is there a way to compliment a random desired girl with a nice ass, rack, or any other body part without looking like an a$$hole? My friend claims there's a "certain" way to do it.

I guess you have to really be crafty and clever with words to pull it off.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Ace of Flames

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Nothing worse than the first thing you say to a girl being a compliment. Even a clever, crafty one. I mean, its fine to do it, but say something else first.
 

Zebedee

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First the compliments should be non sexual ie her hair, perfume etc when you feel that things are going well thats when the compliments can get a bit more sexual.
 

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From what I hear, you're not supposed to compliment her looks.
 

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tr0ublemaker said:
Is there a way to compliment a random desired girl with a nice ass, rack, or any other body part without looking like an a$$hole? My friend claims there's a "certain" way to do it.

I guess you have to really be crafty and clever with words to pull it off.
cause that won't come off as being an over-sexed idiot with a great big rocket in his pocket?.:crackup:

Only messing, no i don't think their is away to say that straight away...
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Bvbidd

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You could just look at her a the right way or whatever.

Nothing wrong with liking what you see.
 
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