"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Complimenting her body if you don't know her.

tr0ublemaker

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Is there a way to compliment a random desired girl with a nice ass, rack, or any other body part without looking like an a$$hole? My friend claims there's a "certain" way to do it.

I guess you have to really be crafty and clever with words to pull it off.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Ace of Flames

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Nothing worse than the first thing you say to a girl being a compliment. Even a clever, crafty one. I mean, its fine to do it, but say something else first.
 

Zebedee

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First the compliments should be non sexual ie her hair, perfume etc when you feel that things are going well thats when the compliments can get a bit more sexual.
 

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From what I hear, you're not supposed to compliment her looks.
 

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tr0ublemaker said:
Is there a way to compliment a random desired girl with a nice ass, rack, or any other body part without looking like an a$$hole? My friend claims there's a "certain" way to do it.

I guess you have to really be crafty and clever with words to pull it off.
cause that won't come off as being an over-sexed idiot with a great big rocket in his pocket?.:crackup:

Only messing, no i don't think their is away to say that straight away...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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You could just look at her a the right way or whatever.

Nothing wrong with liking what you see.
 
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