Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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tom121

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ok.. i need some help about body language

does these mean anything (MAYBE I am over analyizing :p)

1) while I was reading a magazine, in the corner of my eye I see a '8' asian girl walking toward me, she was looking at the magazine stand behind me about 1 feet away... seconds later she walk past me and crouch down organizing her basket like half a feet behind me for like 10 seconds... then she walked away

2) while I was on the bus, I sit down near the hallway, a girl about a feet away from me on the other top left seat kept on looking at me in the corner of her eye, I caught her so many times LOL... I could see her eye balls looking at my way... when I was about to get off the bus, she turned around, looked at me... but I didn't really pay attention to her

3) while I was sitting at a bench reading magazine, I noticed some ladies (mostly older ones) just tend to walk past in front of me when there's stairs beside me... like they are walking the other way just to get my attention... I always caught them looking at me and turn direction... (i'll draw a picture if you dont get this)


I'll add more later... too tired
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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BLUEox117

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so what the fnck is your question? are u asking us for advice or just to tell you how fnckin great you are?
 

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Just a question...

Have you EVER posted about actually talking to a girl? It seems like every topic of yours is about either:

A.) A girl ignores you/doesn't make eye contact and you're sad about it

B.) A girl does make eye contact with you, but you fail to approach or even say anything.

Here's a tip buddy, if you think a girl might be interested in you, the best way to find out is approach HER, not come back and ask US.
 

RiceHapa888

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analyzing that stuff is agonizing why not just talk to one if you think shes hot and your gut says she likes you? I can think a million things like that - "some girl looked at me then looked down", "I caught some girl looking at me"...just assume they like you think positive.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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WesCottII

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1) you're overanalysing. She's organizing her basket.

2)If you're sure she's looking at you, it's whtas called an approach sign. You should have approached her.

3) draw the picture.
 

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Re: Just a question...

Originally posted by Interpol Have you EVER posted about actually talking to a girl? It seems like every topic of yours is about either:

A.) A girl ignores you/doesn't make eye contact and you're sad about it

B.) A girl does make eye contact with you, but you fail to approach or even say anything.

Here's a tip buddy, if you think a girl might be interested in you, the best way to find out is approach HER, not come back and ask US.
Truer words have never been spoken. This thread can't go anywhere, because there's nowhere for it to go. Closed.
 
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