"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ok.. i need some help about body language

does these mean anything (MAYBE I am over analyizing :p)

1) while I was reading a magazine, in the corner of my eye I see a '8' asian girl walking toward me, she was looking at the magazine stand behind me about 1 feet away... seconds later she walk past me and crouch down organizing her basket like half a feet behind me for like 10 seconds... then she walked away

2) while I was on the bus, I sit down near the hallway, a girl about a feet away from me on the other top left seat kept on looking at me in the corner of her eye, I caught her so many times LOL... I could see her eye balls looking at my way... when I was about to get off the bus, she turned around, looked at me... but I didn't really pay attention to her

3) while I was sitting at a bench reading magazine, I noticed some ladies (mostly older ones) just tend to walk past in front of me when there's stairs beside me... like they are walking the other way just to get my attention... I always caught them looking at me and turn direction... (i'll draw a picture if you dont get this)


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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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so what the fnck is your question? are u asking us for advice or just to tell you how fnckin great you are?
 
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Just a question...

Have you EVER posted about actually talking to a girl? It seems like every topic of yours is about either:

A.) A girl ignores you/doesn't make eye contact and you're sad about it

B.) A girl does make eye contact with you, but you fail to approach or even say anything.

Here's a tip buddy, if you think a girl might be interested in you, the best way to find out is approach HER, not come back and ask US.
 
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analyzing that stuff is agonizing why not just talk to one if you think shes hot and your gut says she likes you? I can think a million things like that - "some girl looked at me then looked down", "I caught some girl looking at me"...just assume they like you think positive.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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1) you're overanalysing. She's organizing her basket.

2)If you're sure she's looking at you, it's whtas called an approach sign. You should have approached her.

3) draw the picture.
 
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Re: Just a question...

Originally posted by Interpol Have you EVER posted about actually talking to a girl? It seems like every topic of yours is about either:

A.) A girl ignores you/doesn't make eye contact and you're sad about it

B.) A girl does make eye contact with you, but you fail to approach or even say anything.

Here's a tip buddy, if you think a girl might be interested in you, the best way to find out is approach HER, not come back and ask US.
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