"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ok.. i need some help about body language

does these mean anything (MAYBE I am over analyizing :p)

1) while I was reading a magazine, in the corner of my eye I see a '8' asian girl walking toward me, she was looking at the magazine stand behind me about 1 feet away... seconds later she walk past me and crouch down organizing her basket like half a feet behind me for like 10 seconds... then she walked away

2) while I was on the bus, I sit down near the hallway, a girl about a feet away from me on the other top left seat kept on looking at me in the corner of her eye, I caught her so many times LOL... I could see her eye balls looking at my way... when I was about to get off the bus, she turned around, looked at me... but I didn't really pay attention to her

3) while I was sitting at a bench reading magazine, I noticed some ladies (mostly older ones) just tend to walk past in front of me when there's stairs beside me... like they are walking the other way just to get my attention... I always caught them looking at me and turn direction... (i'll draw a picture if you dont get this)


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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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so what the fnck is your question? are u asking us for advice or just to tell you how fnckin great you are?
 
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Just a question...

Have you EVER posted about actually talking to a girl? It seems like every topic of yours is about either:

A.) A girl ignores you/doesn't make eye contact and you're sad about it

B.) A girl does make eye contact with you, but you fail to approach or even say anything.

Here's a tip buddy, if you think a girl might be interested in you, the best way to find out is approach HER, not come back and ask US.
 
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analyzing that stuff is agonizing why not just talk to one if you think shes hot and your gut says she likes you? I can think a million things like that - "some girl looked at me then looked down", "I caught some girl looking at me"...just assume they like you think positive.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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1) you're overanalysing. She's organizing her basket.

2)If you're sure she's looking at you, it's whtas called an approach sign. You should have approached her.

3) draw the picture.
 
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Re: Just a question...

Originally posted by Interpol Have you EVER posted about actually talking to a girl? It seems like every topic of yours is about either:

A.) A girl ignores you/doesn't make eye contact and you're sad about it

B.) A girl does make eye contact with you, but you fail to approach or even say anything.

Here's a tip buddy, if you think a girl might be interested in you, the best way to find out is approach HER, not come back and ask US.
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Truer words have never been spoken. This thread can't go anywhere, because there's nowhere for it to go. Closed.
 
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